reflect the sum of obj.ttl and obj.grace.

Obj.grace if not set, default to $default_grace, which might have
a different value when we open the silo in a new run.

Solve this, by saving the ttl as the negative sum of (obj.ttl + obj.grace)
if obj.grace is set, or the positive obj.ttl if it is not, and by
adding $default_grace to obj.ttl in the latter case.



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