This change increases the initial size and reduces the low watermark.

RFC7540 says this:

> Flow-controlled frames from the sender and WINDOW_UPDATE frames from
> the receiver are completely asynchronous with respect to each other.
> This property allows a receiver to aggressively update the window
> size kept by the sender to prevent streams from stalling.

The default parameters are very much on the low-latency aggressive
updates end of the spectrum, which increases asynchronicity at the
expense of determinism in test cases.

The tweaks made by varnishtest allows basic tests to send a few request
bodies before being bothered by window update race conditions. Test
cases that cover h2 flow control or anything else related to window
updates may reset parameters or pick other specific values. This frees
us from a bunch of barriers where the purpose of mitigating this race
was rarely even documented.

This successfully passed the following test locally:

    git grep -Fl +http2 -- '*.vtc' |
    xargs bin/varnishtest/varnishtest -i -n100 -j32

We can hope that h2 test cases will be overall more stable from now on.

Refs #3442