The shard director had the limitation to only support adding/removing
backends of one instance before `.reconfigure()` on that instance had
to be called, then the next instance could be changed.

This limitation came from the time when it was still unclear that
calling `VRT_priv_task()` on a per-object pointer was the accepted
interface for per-instance privs (varnish historians' recommended read:
https://github.com/varnishcache/varnish-cache/wiki/VIP1:-PRIV_*-visibility-and-lifetime-control
)

It is about time to lift that limitation now. o/ Dridi