The current flow control code's use of h2->cond is racy.

h2->cond is already used for handing over a DATA frame to a stream
thread. In the event that we have both streams waiting on this condvar
for window updates and at the same time the rxthread gets signaled for a
DATA frame, we could end up waking up the wrong thread and the rxthread
gets stuck forever.

This commit addresses this by using a separate condvar for window
updates.

An alternative would be to always issue a broadcast on h2->cond instead
of signal, but I found this approach much cleaner.

Probably fixes: #2623