imples the following changes:

* VDI_Finish() is now always conditional on bo->director_state !=
  DIR_S_NULL, making it idempotent

* introduces additional calls to VFP_Close() from startfetch and
  for the filter_list / VCL_StackVFP error in vbf_stp_fetch(),
  but VFP_Close() is idempotent.

* adds VFP_Close() for VFP_Open() failure in vbf_stp_fetch() which
  I think is actually missing (for the case that some VFPs could
  get opened before the open failure)

* calls VDI_Finish() earlier in vbf_stp_fetchend: I checked the
  code and can not see any issue with this.

motivated by #3009

 Conflicts:
	bin/varnishd/cache/cache_fetch.c