Instead of passing both a decoder and individual decoder fields, the
signature for h2h_addhdr() changed to only take the decoder. The order
of parameters is destination first, then the source following the
calling conventon of functions like memcpy().

Internally the function is reorganized with a bunch of txt variables to
keep track of the header being added, its name and value. In addition to
clarity, this also helps improve safety and correctness.

For example the :authority pseudo-header name is erased in place to turn
it into a regular host header, but having a dedicated txt for the header
name allows its preservation.